OMEN
08-27-2006, 09:01 PM
#1.) WOMEN WHO ACT AS IF THEY DON'T LIKE SEX:
Men hate it when women put down sex, act embarrassed when talking about it, frequently resist doing it, or have an "OK, let's get it over with" attitude during it. This really bothers men because it makes the relations feel wrong, bad, dirty or embarrassing. . . all of which make men feel like you're JUDGING them. . . and that sucks.
-If you ACTUALLY don't enjoy coitus, then perhaps you should consider talking to a therapist. But if you're acting like you don't like it because you think you're supposed to. . . that's bad. Show your boyfriend or husband your sensual, sexual side. . . he'll genuinely appreciate it
#2.) WOMEN WHO NEVER INITIATE SEX:
When men have to initiate the coitus EVERY damm time, it puts them in a tough position: They know it's the only way for them to have relations. . . but leaves a ton of opportunity to get rejected. That rejection eventually turns into a feeling of MANIPULATION. . . because you're controlling them by controlling the sex.
--It doesn't have to be every night, or every time. . . but YOU should suggest relations some of the time. That way, he'll know you want him as much as he wants you.
#3.) WOMEN WHO ACT UNFAMILIAR WITH THE MAN'S BODY:
It's actually really annoying for men when a woman barely touches them. Not just on the pennis. . . but anywhere. Foreplay is something that BOTH sexes enjoy.
--Also. . . make sure you don't handle his body, especially the ENGORGED part. . . like a priceless Ming vase. Show some confidence and experience. . . or he'll be uneasy. And don't be afraid to ask WHERE he likes to be touched.
4.) A WOMAN WHO MAKES A MAN RESPONSIBLE FOR HER RELEASE:
Men older than 17 really do have the focused goal of providing you with ultimate pleasure and RELEASE during relations. But. . . that goal also leads to performance pressure.
--So, if, from time to time, he isn't able to get you all the way to the finish line, don't BLAME HIM. Make sure you've told him what you like. . . or else he's just guessing anyway, and that's not fair. And, just that once, take care of yourself and give him a pass. Watching you do that will alleviate some of the pressure. . . and that will motivate him for next time MUCH better than feelings of guilt.
#5.) WOMEN WHO ARE SEXUAL TRAFFIC COPS IN BED:
It is very cool when a woman gives some directions in bed. . . and most men will love that. However, when a woman becomes a "traffic cop". . . giving non-stop directions,
corrections and instructions. . . that becomes frustrating. It usually means that the woman has an idea of how things are "supposed" to go. . . and she's trying to force-fit him into that.
--To avoid this, try discussing your likes and dislikes before you get into bed. Then, when you're there, trust him to do the right things. If he does, it shows compatibility that, most likely, extends into other areas of the relationship too
#6.) THE SEXUAL CORPSE: WOMEN WHO ARE UNRESPONSIVE IN BED:
There are few things worse than a woman who is MOTIONLESS AND SILENT during relations. If you don't appear to be enjoying yourself. . . or don't even appear to be AWAKE. . . that is a HUGE turn-off to a man who's probably working pretty hard.
--During sex, men thrive off feedback. If you're participating in the action, and giving verbal cues as to what is and isn't working, not only will he enjoy it more. . . he'll also know what to do to make sure YOU enjoy it more.
#7.) WOMEN WHO DON'T LIKE THEIR OWN BODIES, AND PUT THEMSELVES DOWN:
Men are VISUAL, and find the female body. . . your female body. . . beautiful. He probably won't see the little flaws that you obsess over. So, if you keep pointing them out, it will just frustrate him. . . because it makes it difficult for him to enjoy your body. Plus, men take their cues from women. . . so, over time, he might start agreeing with you about your flaws!!!
--You have to have confidence about your body. Trust that you are beautiful. Exuding pride about your body will EASILY blind him from your odd hip bones or your couple of extra pounds of stomach chubbiness. . . which he should be loving anyway!
#8.) WOMEN WHO DON'T TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES:
Men get just as turned off by bad personal appearance as women do. They may not say it. . . but they're definitely thinking it. Men are visual. You don't have to have a perfect, swimsuit-model body. . . you just need to take care of a few general areas and any man will be happy. Here are some of the most common grooming turn-offs for men:
--Unshaven underarms or legs.
--Bad breath.
--Moustaches.
--Unstylish clothing. . . not necessarily on the cutting edge of fashion, because men don't KNOW what that is, but nothing like muumuus or sack-like clothes.
--Unpleasant odor, you know, down below.
--Bad skin, covered with tons of makeup.
--Unattractive underwear. . . like grandma-style panties, bras that look like chest protectors, badly-mismatched sets, and underwear with holes in it
#9.) WOMEN WHO DON'T LIKE RECEIVING THE GOOD STUFF:
When a man begins to head down for some cunnilizing, he's doing it because he really, really wants to give you pleasure. If he doesn't do it, he feels SELFISH. . . which he doesn't like. So, if you reject his advance, or don't seem to enjoy it. . . he'll feel bad.
--Of course, if you REALLY feel uncomfortable with it, then you should explain that to him, and he'll understand. But, if you just reject it because you think it's dirty, IT'S NOT. And if you reject it because it's too intimate or intense, practice doing it with him in small doses until you get comfortable
#10.) WOMEN WHO TALK ABOUT FORMER LOVERS:
Men like it when you're a little bit experienced. . . but NEVER want to hear about the specifics. One of the worst things you can ever do is to compare his technique, or performance, or SIZE, or speed, to an ex-boyfriend. Even if he appears curious, or asks. . . you should avoid the subject.
--This also applies to telling him things like, "you're the best I've ever had." While that's a good compliment. . . it lets him know he's being compared to everyone in the past. . . something he'd prefer not to think about.
ZM.NZ
Men hate it when women put down sex, act embarrassed when talking about it, frequently resist doing it, or have an "OK, let's get it over with" attitude during it. This really bothers men because it makes the relations feel wrong, bad, dirty or embarrassing. . . all of which make men feel like you're JUDGING them. . . and that sucks.
-If you ACTUALLY don't enjoy coitus, then perhaps you should consider talking to a therapist. But if you're acting like you don't like it because you think you're supposed to. . . that's bad. Show your boyfriend or husband your sensual, sexual side. . . he'll genuinely appreciate it
#2.) WOMEN WHO NEVER INITIATE SEX:
When men have to initiate the coitus EVERY damm time, it puts them in a tough position: They know it's the only way for them to have relations. . . but leaves a ton of opportunity to get rejected. That rejection eventually turns into a feeling of MANIPULATION. . . because you're controlling them by controlling the sex.
--It doesn't have to be every night, or every time. . . but YOU should suggest relations some of the time. That way, he'll know you want him as much as he wants you.
#3.) WOMEN WHO ACT UNFAMILIAR WITH THE MAN'S BODY:
It's actually really annoying for men when a woman barely touches them. Not just on the pennis. . . but anywhere. Foreplay is something that BOTH sexes enjoy.
--Also. . . make sure you don't handle his body, especially the ENGORGED part. . . like a priceless Ming vase. Show some confidence and experience. . . or he'll be uneasy. And don't be afraid to ask WHERE he likes to be touched.
4.) A WOMAN WHO MAKES A MAN RESPONSIBLE FOR HER RELEASE:
Men older than 17 really do have the focused goal of providing you with ultimate pleasure and RELEASE during relations. But. . . that goal also leads to performance pressure.
--So, if, from time to time, he isn't able to get you all the way to the finish line, don't BLAME HIM. Make sure you've told him what you like. . . or else he's just guessing anyway, and that's not fair. And, just that once, take care of yourself and give him a pass. Watching you do that will alleviate some of the pressure. . . and that will motivate him for next time MUCH better than feelings of guilt.
#5.) WOMEN WHO ARE SEXUAL TRAFFIC COPS IN BED:
It is very cool when a woman gives some directions in bed. . . and most men will love that. However, when a woman becomes a "traffic cop". . . giving non-stop directions,
corrections and instructions. . . that becomes frustrating. It usually means that the woman has an idea of how things are "supposed" to go. . . and she's trying to force-fit him into that.
--To avoid this, try discussing your likes and dislikes before you get into bed. Then, when you're there, trust him to do the right things. If he does, it shows compatibility that, most likely, extends into other areas of the relationship too
#6.) THE SEXUAL CORPSE: WOMEN WHO ARE UNRESPONSIVE IN BED:
There are few things worse than a woman who is MOTIONLESS AND SILENT during relations. If you don't appear to be enjoying yourself. . . or don't even appear to be AWAKE. . . that is a HUGE turn-off to a man who's probably working pretty hard.
--During sex, men thrive off feedback. If you're participating in the action, and giving verbal cues as to what is and isn't working, not only will he enjoy it more. . . he'll also know what to do to make sure YOU enjoy it more.
#7.) WOMEN WHO DON'T LIKE THEIR OWN BODIES, AND PUT THEMSELVES DOWN:
Men are VISUAL, and find the female body. . . your female body. . . beautiful. He probably won't see the little flaws that you obsess over. So, if you keep pointing them out, it will just frustrate him. . . because it makes it difficult for him to enjoy your body. Plus, men take their cues from women. . . so, over time, he might start agreeing with you about your flaws!!!
--You have to have confidence about your body. Trust that you are beautiful. Exuding pride about your body will EASILY blind him from your odd hip bones or your couple of extra pounds of stomach chubbiness. . . which he should be loving anyway!
#8.) WOMEN WHO DON'T TAKE CARE OF THEMSELVES:
Men get just as turned off by bad personal appearance as women do. They may not say it. . . but they're definitely thinking it. Men are visual. You don't have to have a perfect, swimsuit-model body. . . you just need to take care of a few general areas and any man will be happy. Here are some of the most common grooming turn-offs for men:
--Unshaven underarms or legs.
--Bad breath.
--Moustaches.
--Unstylish clothing. . . not necessarily on the cutting edge of fashion, because men don't KNOW what that is, but nothing like muumuus or sack-like clothes.
--Unpleasant odor, you know, down below.
--Bad skin, covered with tons of makeup.
--Unattractive underwear. . . like grandma-style panties, bras that look like chest protectors, badly-mismatched sets, and underwear with holes in it
#9.) WOMEN WHO DON'T LIKE RECEIVING THE GOOD STUFF:
When a man begins to head down for some cunnilizing, he's doing it because he really, really wants to give you pleasure. If he doesn't do it, he feels SELFISH. . . which he doesn't like. So, if you reject his advance, or don't seem to enjoy it. . . he'll feel bad.
--Of course, if you REALLY feel uncomfortable with it, then you should explain that to him, and he'll understand. But, if you just reject it because you think it's dirty, IT'S NOT. And if you reject it because it's too intimate or intense, practice doing it with him in small doses until you get comfortable
#10.) WOMEN WHO TALK ABOUT FORMER LOVERS:
Men like it when you're a little bit experienced. . . but NEVER want to hear about the specifics. One of the worst things you can ever do is to compare his technique, or performance, or SIZE, or speed, to an ex-boyfriend. Even if he appears curious, or asks. . . you should avoid the subject.
--This also applies to telling him things like, "you're the best I've ever had." While that's a good compliment. . . it lets him know he's being compared to everyone in the past. . . something he'd prefer not to think about.
ZM.NZ